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how do i write (in this lj, specifically) about something someone said that's bugging me without being passive-agressive about it? i'm not really angry, just need to vent a little, and i don't want to name the person because it's not really relevant who said the things, just that they were said. but at the same time, i feel like if i write and describe the situation, the person may feel either attacked or overly apologetic, neither of which is my intent. perhaps this entry works as a disclaimer? heh. i don't know.