You just do it. Just say it, in normal conversation. And let him know exactly what a deal it is before hand. EG: This isn't huge deal, but it's something on my mind, so blahblahblahblahblah. add an articulate disclaimer, and then just lauch into it. being nervous about how someone will take something can often be mistaken for being nervous about the actual subject. and keep a good face. No matter the seriousness of your subject, if it's not meant to be worrisome, just make that clear, don't be nervous. But if you are nervous, let him know that too. Honesty. yay.
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Date: 2005-10-14 05:44 pm (UTC)