quick question

[dancingyel]

how do you bring up serious relationship topics without being all scary and making the other person think something is wrong? 'cause i have some things i want to discuss with the boy, but i'm not sure how to start the conversation in a normal, non-scary fashion. i also don't want to pretend to "accidentally" stumble on the topic, which is a tactic that often works, but is really not what i'm going for here.

Comments

[dancingyel.livejournal.com]

i'm similarly bad at bringing things up, at least in a direct way. i tend to wind around topics for too long, which makes it seem more like something is wrong when it really isn't. i don't think scheduling would work for me, since it feels way too formal, but you're right, wanting to check in periodically is a good way to start a conversation. thanks for the advice!