quick question

[dancingyel]

how do you bring up serious relationship topics without being all scary and making the other person think something is wrong? 'cause i have some things i want to discuss with the boy, but i'm not sure how to start the conversation in a normal, non-scary fashion. i also don't want to pretend to "accidentally" stumble on the topic, which is a tactic that often works, but is really not what i'm going for here.

Comments

[dancingyel.livejournal.com]

it's sad that the thought of having a serious conversation makes people think something is wrong! i do it, too, but it's such a silly thing! but yeah, you're right...i definitely should emphasize that nothing is wrong and i just want to have a focused conversation.